Tom Weigh Mancini

Basically just wanting to warn other women out there to stay away from this man. He is very good at romancing you and telling you what everyone wants to hear, and also full of big promises and dreams.

The story goes like this, he had sought me out on Facebook and sent me flattering messages and had befriended me. He was so handsome and obviously I was charmed and flattered. All started off very well, we corresponded for some months getting to know about each other and I enjoyed talking with him. Then as some months went by he started asking me for help with his project that he was working on. He had told me he is an Engineer and works with Julius Berger in Germany and had just gotten a contract job in Africa, Nigeria for that matter. I obviously was very nieve way back then and really didn't think twice about anything. Just happy to think that someone like him would be very smitten with me and I thought he was genuine. This relationship had started near the end of March of 2011 and into January and February of 2012. Originally when he contacted me he said he was in Germany, then he had to go to London, England and from there when he got the contract which was located in Lagos, Nigeria. All seemed to be going well and then after a couple of months like I had mentioned he asked if I could help him out with money for his project. I had said no that I was in no position to help because I am in a bad way myself. The relationship still had gone on and then a month or so later again he would ask me for my help. Again I said I was unable to. But of course he was always nice about my saying no and said he understood, and he seemed so genuine and loving towards me, saying he was in love with me, etc. etc. Again after awhile he tried again saying he needed some money to send to his mom and son as they needed things and he hated to see them do without. Again later he said he needed some money for his mom so she could have some medical tests done and asked again. Again I responded with a no.
Then he said his project was going on well but wanted to hurry and finish it so that he could be with me and wanted to make me his wife. So in correspondence he sometimes referred to me as his future wife. Of course, he was really quite smooth and very charming. He always called me nice things like my sweet, my love, my honeybee, my future wife, and he always ended his mail to me with...love from me to you, tom cares, tom cares always.

Needless to say as the time went on he was very believing and I had started to trust him. What a giant mistake that was. So I got caught up in his lies and eventually broke down and started sending him money over some months (from October to December 2011). I won't say how much but just to let you know it was a substantial sum which had also put me in a very bad way because I had borrowed it from my credit cards. I was not even in a financially good position to do this for him, but against my better judgment had done it anyway. He had promised that it would only be for one time he needed the money but then he had asked again the following month. By that time I became more suspicious of him and I had started requesting more information from him, like photos of his family, pictures of his project and also more access to his facebook so I can see who his friends are. He said he would fix facebook so I could have full access but he never fixed it to this day. Obviously, he did not want me to see all...

He promised he was coming to see me for Christmas before he had gone back to the States where he said he lived, but of course he never did. There is always some excuse or another. I called him out on scamming me but he said he did not and has my money for me, but thats all bullshit because I have still been trying to maintain contact with him to see if he has any kind of consciouns at all because I have had to sell my house because I could not afford to keep it because of all the credit card debt I had incurred. Now I am renting. But I wanted him to know all of this to see what he would do then.

The nerve of him, when I had asked him for money to help me out so I could pay some bills, etc. he said he could not. Oh yes, also he had tried to get all my personal information as well saying that he was opening some type of account where he needed this for and that he would put a large sum of money in it (the money he took from me and extra for when he came), but of course I did not provide him with any of that information at all because I was onto him.

Just a week or so ago he again asked me for money knowing full well that he put me in serious financial trouble and I am now renting...huuummm and it will take me years and years before I will be out of debt and can fix my credit rating.

Thank god a friend of mine had told me about this site and that I should do some digging and research. And low and behold I was able to find his picture that he is using which I will post here. But obviously too late for me.

Also want to let you know that I was requested to send that money by moneygram or have it wired through Western Union or Cash Shop. He asked for it to be sent to one, Agbele T. Arisekola in the State of Lagos and Country of Nigeria, who apparently was his assistant on his work project. He said that I couldn't send it directly to him because, he did not have any identification with him there or passport or driver's license because the state was holding it while he was working there???

Before I forget I would like to mention that of course now since apparently he is back in the US, he says he is in Kentucky at the moment, that of course since January he is not reachable by phone nor has he made the effort to call me and avoids it at all costs.
By the way he also said that his mother passed away in March 2012, I believe.

He had told me he was once married and had a son about 3 or 4 years of age, but that she had cheated on him with his best friend... I felt sorry for him of course.

Also just recently he told me his son is almost 10 years as he is looking to put him in boarding school because his mother has now passed and he has full custody of his son that he just got recently as well also, because his wife was making lots of trouble for him and taking him to court to get custody and money. That was one of the reasons why he could not give me back my money he owes.

His email address: tomweigh_m@yahoo.com

His email address: tomweigh_mancini@rocketmail.com (this is the one we are using now)

email address: XXXXX_weigh@yahoo.com (this one he created special for us for a while and then he or they managed to erase it) Password: xxxxx tom love

Phone Nos. 1 234 803 397 4124 (TOM)

Other Nos. 647 628-4503 (TOM)
601 812-6405 (TOM)
502 498-8994 (TOM)

Phone No. for Agbele T. Arisekola : 1 234 805 9020663

I REALLY HOPE SOMEONE CATCHES THIS BASTARD, THIS WOULD GIVE ME THE GREATEST SATISFACTION OF ALL FOR CAUSING SO MUCH DAMAGE IN MY LIFE AND POSSIBLY IN OTHERS AS WELL.

If I can come up with other info and numbers I hope I can add to here.


From Brampton, Ontario